http://www.hardwonwisdom.com Sat, 04 Jul 2009 10:47:03 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I just read the health update posted for Deanne Roberts, a community leader and businesswoman in Tampa that I have long-admired. I can't tell you how much it hurt to read, "Since learning last month that my original cancer metastasized to the lungs..." I'd thought she'd made it to the other ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/the-cancer-is-back-and-there-is-life/ I am still shaken by Steve Persall's column about a former co-worker of mine who morphed from a solid newspaper reporter into a crack-addicted, homeless woman after she was laid off two years ago. He didn't name her, but it didn't take long to find out her identity and realize ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/this-cant-be/ I have two brothers: One is blood, the other one should have been. My blood brother has been a source of great heartache, but my "chosen" brother has brought me as much love, security and friendship as any blood brother could have offered. I'm so blessed. Five years ago, when I ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/my-true-brother-my-sister-down-the-block/ What I am about to confess is heresy for a woman known for pushing women to push their limits. But, in the last week, it appears that I have been cast in the role of the helpless female needing to be rescued by strapping, testosterone-fueled  males. Let me explain: I am ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/helpless-female-or-hopeless-captain/ I have a friend who is on the brink of losing everything. Her home. Her savings. Her retirement... It isn't pretty. She says it's a matter of weeks before she bottoms out. This year, we are learning to redefine "bottoming out." I have had several friends give up their homes, spend down ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/itll-all-work-out/ I spent last week on the legendary cycling adventure, the Bicycle Ride Across Georgia. I can't tell you how much fun I had -- but, I can show you.  The good was that I had seven days of hard cycling. The bad was eight nights of sleeping in a tent. ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/im-back-whew/ I can't count the times I have thanked the universe for getting me out of journalism before the newspaper industry went to hell. I have so many great memories and it was a part of my life that had a good beginning, middle and end. I don't know how I ... http://www.hardwonwisdom.com/uncategorized/life-after-journalism-newspaper-stars-cope-with-sudden-unemployment/